So an astrologer/psychic who came highly recommended by a former co-worker/fabulous tech PR executive told me that my career is going through a total explosion (in a good way) and that I am almost mid-way through that cycle with some of the impact of things happening now yet to come. That's pretty exciting.
Yet, she also told me that my marriage house is totally empty. And I looked at the chart in front of me and sure enough, bare as a bone licked white by your neighbor's dog. On the one hand, I don't have any excuses. I've done most of the things I really wanted to do in life and if I'd really wanted to be married with kids, I would have done that already. Yet part of me feels the social stigma of my failure to attach to another single human being. And also, I would like to find that person who is my best friend and lover for life. That's normal.
The truth is that I'm pretty self-sufficient and enjoy my independence. It's not the first time I've heard that the marriage train might not be stopping at my station for a bit so I had to ask myself, well self, what do I want?
Perhaps the most prudent course of action is to take another lover for awhile. Someone entertaining, relaxing, intriguing, exciting. Strong, smart, nurturing and kind. Someone from whom I can learn something new. I'm not terribly worried about my prospects. In the 8 months I've been here, I've had 2 boyfriends (both fine as hell and smart too) and have been grabbed and kissed at random 3 times. It usually happens in the Mission. After midnight. I thought that might be normal for San Francisco but when I told a friend she said: "No, I think it's the hair. Definitely the hair."
I can't complain after all. I'm ridiculously, ecstatically happy here and never dreamed really I could feel so good about myself, my life, my friendships, my family and my work. Not all is perfect of course. They never are. But things overall are in a good place for me and I feel the love & marriage situation will work itself in time in a happy way too.
Here please find a video I found amusing. It's about Japanese women who patronize the "Butler's Cafe" where they are waited on hand and foot by hot Western men. It's a bit tame by our standards in the West though I like that each lady gets a differently designed tiara, there are sweets involved and the waiters call you "My Princess." To update this for America, I'd certainly patronize an establishment that offered tall hot Brazilian and Italian soccer players with a menu of places to rub -- shoulders, feet, hands, temples. Wouldn't it make tea with the girls more interesting if a handsome man carried you to your seat and entertained you with some pleasant chitchat while complimenting everyone's outfits?
Along with some shoulder and foot massage, having a tall blond handsome and shirtless man on his knees feeding me salted caramel and snickerdoodle ice cream with chocolate sauce while calling me "My Princess"? Priceless. Some say this is sexist and objectifying. I am confused by these objections. Anyone wishing to invest in the concept -- let me know.
LALA....BECAUSE OF YOU...ON THE SAFE SIDE,AND YOU DON'T GET HURT.O(∩_∩)O~
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